HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE - Embracing Grace

HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE

WHAT YOU ALLOW . . WILL CONTINUE

✞ Embracing Grace ✞ 

Abiding In God's Grace©Ministries

Written By: Pastor Stephanie Blackburn

I wish someone would have told me . . that sacrificing my boundaries in the name of love, forgiveness, and empathy . . wasn't noble. 

I wish they would have WARNED me . . that all it would do is make me a doormat and a safe-house . . for other people's demons. 

I think empathy, has to be taught in Two Parts . . 

1). How to put yourself in someone's shoes . . and see the hurt they were given . . that made them hurt you [and others]. To see WHY . . or WHAT . . is keeping them from Christ . . and Freedom in HIM.

 

2). How to understand, acknowledge and accept . . that you still don't deserve . . what they're doing. To always make sure that you do NOT [and that you Never] repay evil with evil . . NOR get even or retaliate. To truly give it and surrender it ALL . . over to The Lord our God. To fervently pray to God and to pray over the situation and person . . and to forgive them and move out of the way . . and let The Lord God Almighty work.

Their pain, scars and hurts . . 

are NO excuse . . 

for the wounds they give [and repeat on] to you.

Their inability to forgive and [to] heal . . is NOT . . something you can heal, fix, change . . NOR mend . . ONLY CHRIST CAN. Your NOT helping them . . NOR yourself . . if you stay and continue to allow them to hurt and hinder you . . and if you keep condoning and consenting to them treating you . . in all unacceptable, unloving and ungodly ways.

If you give them [constant] excuses and safe places for their darkness . . instead of praying to God, leading to Christ . . and demanding [while still fervently praying] they do better; [then] the only thing you are teaching them . . is what you'll put up with and tolerate . . what you'll allow and what they can continue . . that it's really okay for them to NOT value and [Nor] respect you . . that you may yell and be mad . . but that's it and the extent of it . . that you'll [eventually] get over it and NEVER leave . . NOR expect and demand [that] they actually change.

We desperately want to live [and be] in a world . . where hurt people . . don't hurt people. But the sad and heartbreaking reality  and TRUTH is that . . we don't. We live in a Fallen wicked world . . that is  heavily influenced by satan and his demonic minions. [And] Unfortunately we live in a world where society has deemed it "Normal". .  for hurt people to hurt people. We have been conditioned and indoctrinated to making excuses for people and their bad [ungodly and un-biblical] behaviors and actions . . as well as accepting their self justifications and validations. We have NOT only been making excuses for them and their actions . . but we NO longer hold people accountable . . we NO longer stand up for ourselves and our rights and freedoms . . NOR our beliefs and faith . . we just go with the world and let people do whatever . . and let chaos, satanism, ungodliness and the enemy run rampant. 

The truth and reality is . . it starts with you standing up for yourself, following Christ above all [above every thing and every one], fighting the good fight of faith and NOT accepting [Nor tolerating] disrespect, wickedness, ungodliness, vengeance, evilness, satanism, deception, worldly ways and customs and ideologies, pettiness, childishness, hate, blasphemy, immaturity, self-justification, excuses and lies, unrighteousness, and demonetization and demoralization [etc..]. 

 

We are to be forgiving, caring, sympathetic, compassionate, loving, kind, understanding, empathetic, selfless, long suffering, godly and Christlike [among many other things] . . but we must NOT let ourselves be led astray and damned [Nor forsaken . . Nor cursed] . . we must NOT let ourselves be subjected to worldly, fleshly and satanic things . . NOR people [worldly, fleshly and satanic people]. We must NOT be divided, turned against [one another] and [Nor] deceived . . NOR mind controlled and Indoctrinated. We must NOT conform . .  NOR comply . . NOR consent to this [fallen] world . . NOR [to] the [fallen] wicked people in it . . NOR [to] their ideologies, tyranny, blasphemy,  idolatry crimes, wickedness, agendas, narratives, schemes and plans, [Nor to their] selfishness, practices,  satanism, beliefs, paganism, experiments, witchcraft and evilness . . NOR to our adversary and enemy, satan [the devil]. We must NOT be caught up, mingled with [Nor in] and [Nor] consumed in [Nor with] evilness . . in wickedness . . in bondage and in sin. We must NOT let them stumble us . . NOR tempt us [Nor lead us into temptations] . . NOR break us . . NOR beat us down .. NOR intimidate and scare us . . NOR destroy us . . NOR  to lead us from The Lord and His Will . . and cause us to fall. We must  NOT be a part of their satanic societies . . NOR their beast system(s). We must NOT be led straight to the Mark [of the beast] . . NOR led to the gates of hell. We MUST be clothes in and suited up with THE FULL ARMOUR OF GOD ALMIGHTY!

We must be set a part and [be] born again . . we must be different, faithful and obedient . . we must be watchful and discerning . . we must endure to the very end . . we must be strong, bold and courageous in Christ . . we must warn the lost and preach and share the Gospel with ALL our [lost] brothers and sisters in Christ  [with everyone] . . we must have fellowship and hold one another accountable in ALL ways Christ . . we must be repentful. 

You chose to find and seek The Lord our God. You chose to accept and surrender to Christ. You chose to heal. You chose to forgive. You chose to repent and believe. You chose to take the darkness the world and our enemy gave you . . and still be a light. You chose to shine your light bright for Christ. You chose to follow The Lord. You chose to pick up, bare and carry your cross. You chose to take the narrow path/road. You chose kindness despite the pain, hurt and trauma you received. THEY CAN TOO!

STOP allowing Spiritual Vampires and wicked people . . drain you, provoke you, tempt you, and cause you to stumble or fall . . STOP allowing them to hinder your growth, walk, faith obedience and relationship to The Lord God Almighty! 

Love Always and God Bless Y'all, 

Stephanie XoXoxoxoxoxo 

Abiding In God's Grace©Ministries